Carter Efe sparks outrage with harsh words against VeryDarkMan, drags his mother into their feud

Popular Nigerian comedian and content creator Carter Efe has stirred fresh controversy on social media after a disturbing statement directed at activist VeryDarkMan (VDM).
What he said
In a video circulating online, Carter Efe made a harsh declaration involving VeryDarkMan's mother, leaving many people asking how far social media disagreements should be allowed to go.
Speaking in Pidgin, he said, in effect: "VeryDarkMan, if you don't bring me down, your mother will die. Whatever your mother is looking for in this life, she will not find it."
The statement, which amounts to wishing death and misfortune on VDM's mother, has raised concerns about the kind of language being used in online confrontations.
When feuds go too far
Disagreements between public figures are nothing new in Nigeria. Celebrities exchange insults, make accusations and drag one another for days, and sometimes the whole thing turns into entertainment for their followers.
But bringing someone's mother into a personal disagreement, especially with words wishing her death or misfortune, is something many people consider completely unacceptable.
Whatever the disagreement between Carter Efe and VeryDarkMan may be, one question remains: what has VDM's mother got to do with it? These are parents who may know little or nothing about the arguments their children are having online.
No explanation yet
At the time of writing, Carter Efe has not publicly explained what led him to make the statement.
Over to you
Has Carter Efe taken this disagreement too far, or do you believe his words are being taken out of context?
- Carter Efe made a death wish against VDM's mother in a video.
- Many say parents should be kept out of online feuds.
- Carter Efe has not explained the statement.



