"Go and work, I have children to take care of!": GehGeh sends strong message to his siblings and critics

Popular Nigerian social media personality and financial adviser GehGeh has stirred reactions online after sending a strong message to his family members and to those who believe he should carry the financial responsibilities of everyone around him.
"Go and work"
Speaking openly about the pressure that comes with financial success, GehGeh made it clear that having money does not mean one person should become the permanent provider for an entire family.
According to him, his brothers and sisters must learn to work hard and take responsibility for their own lives rather than depending entirely on him.
"If you're my brother or my sister, go and work. Don't depend only on me because I have children I need to take care of. I can't do more than my power for family members," he said.
A familiar Nigerian story
His message touches on something many Nigerians can relate to, especially those who have become financially stable while other relatives continue to struggle.
In many families, once one person starts making money, expectations begin to grow. School fees, house rent, feeding allowances, business capital and even personal expenses suddenly become that person's responsibility. Sometimes the demands never seem to end.
Drawing the line
GehGeh appears determined to draw a line. He did not suggest that helping relatives is wrong, but his message was clear: family support should have limits, particularly when someone has children and responsibilities of their own.
His remarks also highlight the pressure successful people face from relatives who believe family ties automatically guarantee financial support.
Family members should help one another whenever they can. But should one person's success become an excuse for everyone else to stop trying?
Over to you
Is GehGeh being too harsh on his family, or is he simply saying what many successful people are afraid to tell their relatives?
- GehGeh told his siblings to work and not depend only on him.
- He says he has children to take care of.
- Many Nigerians relate to the pressure of supporting relatives.



